The excellent and thought provoking article of Fr. Laurence Freeman OSB, of June 2002 on “Priests & People” (today “The Pastoral Review”), “The Contemplative Parish” is an interesting article which challenges some of the realities of Parishes and Parish Priests of today. His diagnosis of these realities of many of our Parishes and his comparisons with other realities he had encountered are very insightful. In short, the author wants to promote a “Contemplative Parish” …. Throughout history this idea had never before been put forward except for what Pope John Paul II recently said, prophetically, at the beginning of the third millennium (see below). This is, also, what Fr. Al. wanted for Queen of Peace Parish, Gainesville, FL. In fact, I was hired with this in mind: to have the School of Mary’s Formation at the heart of the Parish. Fr. Al. didn’t have a specific plan – this is obvious as this idea was previously unheard of. I was bringing to the table my experience and expertise in Spiritual Formation. Fr. Al. just said: I would like the School of Mary to be at the heart of the Parish. Thus, we knew we had to be creative. Fair enough. A real amazing adventure!

In his article, despite his efforts and from the School of Mary’s perspective, Fr. Freeman is not hugely clear about what this type of Parish should look like. Therefore, when Fr. Al. pointed out to me this incredible article of Fr. Laurence, and with Fr. Al’s project in mind, I instinctively thought that the road to take could be as follows. As we usually need Catechists in a parish for all the stages of catechesis, from zero to OCIA, that is, in the terms of Spiritual Theology, as illustrated by St. Teresa of Avila in her Interior Castle , from 0 to 3rd or maximum 5th Mansions, we can say that the equivalent is needed from second conversion, 4th Mansions to the end, namely, we need “mystagogues”, or Spiritual Formators, i.e. people qualified to give and support “spiritual formation”.

As an aside, let me just clarify that Catechesis is essentially based on the actual contents of the Catechism of the Catholic Church. However, for spiritual formation we do not have a single body of teaching. Hence my earnest desire is to write a book on Spiritual Formation.

While Fr. Freeman seems just to want to promote Contemplative Prayer and to allow it to permeate the Mass (one can watch online a pre-recorded Mass, which he leads).  I think the real “contemplative parish” needs infinitely much more than that. For Fr Freeman, “contemplative” seems to mean essentially people starting to practise Contemplative Prayer (Prayer of the Heart). It is true that in his article he writes about the spiritual journey, but the implications are not clear as to how it shapes the parish in its spiritual dimension. He does not seem to have a developed thought as far as I can see and understand He does not have in mind the full journey of spiritual growth and what it requires in formation, tuition, support, body of doctrine…. Of course, he already has made a great stride forward in promoting Contemplative Prayer, and one has to give him full credit for that. But if one has the full picture of formation as we see it in the School, we will have a clearer vision that what is needed is infinitely much more.

In his article, Fr. Laurence presents one of his main intuitions and explanations of what is at stake in a Parish. To do so, he uses the example of Martha and Mary taken from the Gospel. Here is the passage taken from St. Luke’s Gospel: 

“Now in their proceeding, He entered into a certain village; and a certain woman named Martha received Him into the home. And she had a sister called Mary, who also, having sat down at the feet of the Lord, was listening to His word. But Martha was distracted about much service; and having come up, she said, “Lord, is it not concerning to You that my sister has left me alone to serve? Therefore speak to her, that she might help me!” And the Lord answering said to her, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things; but one thing is necessary, only one; for Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her.”

It is a very famous passage which was used throughout the twenty centuries of contemplative tradition as a defence of contemplatives, the monks. But here, Fr. Laurence will offer a slightly different application of this passage (bold print is mine):

The interesting thing is that on the surface, Bl. Marie Eugene would give his total seal of approval to this way of reading of the sacred text, i.e. the relationship between contemplation and action. I am saying this because one of his mottos is: “contemplation and action well united”. First let us notice that often in Spiritual Theology and in Spirituality, Mary and Martha are used as being synonymous of Contemplation and Action, and therefore they are seen not as two human beings but rather two functions or types of activities within one person as shown in the article. Is this way of seeing the human being in a differentiated way – being capable of contemplating and not neglecting to act, or vice-versa, being active but never neglecting contemplation – the main need and solution according to Fr. Laurence?

In spiritual life there are other dimensions which need to be taken into consideration and fulfilled. Spiritual growth is a fundamental one. Not that the author intends to neglect it, but it is not receiving the true attention it needs and it can slip the attention of the reader completely. In Spiritual Theology, on the journey of growth, the relationship between Martha and Mary being synonymous with contemplation and action, their growth, the type of interaction between them, go through different phases of development, all linked to spiritual transformation. The human being changes and develops, the connection with God in prayer develops and grows, and action in the human being is totally reformed, along the lines of the long journey of birth and blossoming of the New Man or New Creature in us. All this under the different phases of the action of the Holy Spirit in the human being, purifying, adorning, uniting, inflaming and uniting itself with the sinners.

As an example of the changes and transformation of the relationship between Mary and Martha one can study in St. Teresa of Avila on one hand her description of the relationship between Mary and Martha of the Prayer of Quiet (Way of Perfection chapter 31), and on the other what she says about them in chapter 4 of the Seventh Mansions of the Interior Castle. As a result, one can “measure” so to speak the spiritual development and change in the human being which occurs between these two phases, one at the beginning of the committed spiritual life after the second conversion, and the other after having reached Spiritual Marriage. If one studies in depth the differences one will find that there is no comparison at all between the two phases, even if, in appearance, but in appearance only, there is no difference: here as there it is about contemplation and action, i.e. Mary and Martha, being two activities in the human being.

So as a conclusion we can say:

1- One cannot reduce the problem and its solution just to foster a greater balance between Martha and Mary as two aspects of the human person (contemplation and action), or even just establish a relationship between them. What is at stake is much more complex and challenging, which leads us to the second point.

2- The growth and transformation dimension, the spiritual journey, have to be integrated in the evaluation. This will change the perspective totally, because one will have a journey to undergo and not just a balance to establish by fostering more contemplation.

In order to have a truly and fully Contemplative Parish Project, many important things need to be developed. We need the priests to be trained/formed for that level of depth, otherwise how can they manage Catechesis and Spiritual Formation? They would be seriously out of their depth for “Spiritual Formation” because the content of Theology a seminarian receives has a very poor Spiritual Theology aspect.

Testing the Project: Fr. Al’s project is “idealistic” as a project, in the sense that it has pre-requisites, things to be already in place before launching it. It requires a complete revision of what Theology is. We need a full body of doctrine about spiritual formation. Pope John Paul II talked once about such a Parish (see below Novo Millenio Ienunte) and hoped for it to become real for the third millennium – Fr. Laurence also talks about the third millennium in his article. With all due respect, because of the state of Theology then and now, I am not sure Pope John Paul was aware what such a project would entail. He wanted, in his letter about the third millennium, to have Holiness as the main project of the Parish. This was his proposal for the third millennium. He wanted the Church to reshape the pastoral plan and work of the Parish around holiness.

Or to express it in the words of John Paul II:

His words are very audacious and visionary. I think that this is the plan to implement for the entire third millennium.

Yes, a fully available “Body of Doctrine” on Spiritual Formation is needed. Yes, “Training Spiritual Formators” then is truly key. One could not have such a vision without these two elements: the Doctrine and the Formator.  As we have a Catechism of the Catholic Church, as a real foundational body of doctrine for Catechesis, we need a Body of Doctrine for Spiritual Formation. Also, just as we form Catechists, we need to form “Spiritual Formators” for this ministry.

It seems to me that the Priests will have to be formed and prepared differently. As said above, Theology (which is actually the basis of their formation) itself will have to be different, it will have to integrate the journey of growth and be Integral. This is really a colossal change.

It is important to be aware that the way we theologise, unconsciously determines and controls everything in the Church. Theology forms our way of thinking our faith. If shapes our vision, our goal and our pastoral plans. It also forms all of us: Priests, Religious, Nuns, Catechists, future Bishops, Cardinals and Popes. However, Theology today is very limited. It essentially deals with the Mansions from 0 to 3 (“mansions” alludes to St. Teresa of Avila’s Interior Castle).

One can say: “Training formators then is truly key. You couldn’t have such a vision without this.” because one SEES and understands what is at stake. In the School of Mary much is learned about spiritual reality and the pastoral aspect of spiritual life (formation, tuition, spiritual direction, reading, studying, courses…). But “normal” people are using the only vision and understanding that today’s Theology gives them. Therefore, they cannot see. Even if they are very spiritual, they just guess, they have a remote intuition, resembling in part Hans Urs von Balthasar or Pope Benedict. 

Theology needs to be transfigured. Theology is really our eyes, the way we see things and understand them and it shapes our acts, plans, and pastoral work for, “If the eyes are bad, the whole body will be full of darkness” (Mt. 6:23).

The School’s vision is truly monumental, and it may take many years (often I mention half-jokingly: 300 years) before it’s fully “seen” and Theology is transfigured, but what a gift to the Church that the School already sees this – and not only sees – but is able to offer something truly transformative and unique. To quote a senior member of the School: “We are praying that God opens the doors for the School to train formators/seminarians even starting at a diocesan level, because in that way there is a tangible model and experience/example that can be offered for the Church of the future. That in itself would be powerful. The fact that we have a Bishop onboard already in St. Augustine’s is a grace, so hopefully we can offer something at some point to begin with. Big project with lots of planning I know.”

Which Ecclesiology?

One has to admit that stating that the Parish is in charge of the entire spiritual journey means to change ecclesiology, to change our understanding of how the Church works. Fr. Laurence makes this normal statement: “I am well aware that a parish and a monastery are different things.” A more traditional form of ecclesiology may associate each of the three functions of Christ with different “branches” of the Church, namely, Christ is at once not only king, priest and prophet, but the Church is also made in the image of Christ. The Church is then King (queen) like Christ, Priest like Him and Prophet like Him. In this sense we can say that: The leaders of the Church are the Bishops united to the Pope. They fit well with the kingly dimension and function of the Church, while the Parish fits well with the Priestly function of the Church. Christ is also Prophet and this function fits very well with the consecrated who have heard the Lord’s Call to follow Him closely – all those who are on a quest for Union with God and the fullness of Love.

In this sense, and if we follow St. Anthony the Great’s journey, we find his Christian life starts in the Parish. He then receives Jesus’ Call, leaves his parish, and ventures into the depths of the desert. Fleeing the city, a place of sin, fleeing the World, and dying to the world, the monks felt the call to dedicate all their energy to God, to a new life of search for God in the Desert. In this sense an initial dichotomy was felt and lived: in order to follow Jesus’ Call, it was almost necessary to physically “die” to the world. We say “almost”, because there are stories of people living in the cities who were great saints. St. Antony the Great himself was shown a shoemaker who had something he did not have. This shoemaker would teach St. Antony a new depth in monastic life (see series of Anonymous n°..).

See an overview and illustration of this initial ecclesiology in the following drawing and in this article here.

We can use another drawing to illustrate this spiritual ecclesiology:

If one studies the history of monastic life, religious life and consecration, one notices that throughout the ages a process of discernment has been at work culminating in the realisation that fleeing to the desert need no longer be necessary. Monks started to own land to cultivate it, they drew closer to the outskirts of the city, then entered into the City. They entered Universities (Middle Ages), they were able to leave their enclosure and serve (Daughters of Charity) then with Charles de Foucauld they learned to live a normal life among people in order to be sanctified, until we reached the Secular Institutes where one is consecrated but lives an apparently normal life. This does not mean we forget the monastic brotherhoods in the middle of the city, not to mention the new movements in the Church which have many lay persons. We have come full circle in order to better understand the meaning of “consecration” and its possibility in normal everyday life.

In this sense, today, there is a mysterious new tendency to think that holiness can be reached in the Parish, without any necessity to move from one place to the other. As we can see below, however, the ecclesiology needs to be more refined. We move from “Parish” meaning exclusively the “Priestly function of the Church” and “Desert” meaning exclusively “Prophetic Function of the Church”, to a new ecclesiology where the Parish can include both Functions: the priestly one (Catechesis) and the prophetic one (Spiritual Formation). (please see drawing below)

In this sense the deeper stages of spiritual life become the heart of the Parish and the Parish itself has all the ingredients which can lead us to holiness, especially that of “spiritual formation”.

As mentioned above, this new format contains many challenges – the development of Theology, the development of Spiritual Theology, the transfiguration of the vocation to Priesthood (Parish Priest) and the Diaconate.

Jean Khoury

22 August 23

Our Lady Mother and Queen

Read Also

“The Contemplative Parish” 

Reflections on the Deacon‘s Vocation

‘Solitude Before Serving’ in Priestly Formation

The Bishop, ‘Master of Perfection’

For articles on Spiritual Formation please see here.

For articles on The Spiritual Journey please see here.

For articles on the Call to Holiness please see here.

Instruction “The pastoral conversion of the Parish community in the service of the evangelising mission of the Church”, of the Congregation for the Clergy, 20.07.2020